“We’re closer than just ordinary friends, but we’re not lovers either…” Have you ever experienced that in-between relationship—more than friends, less than lovers?
If you both care for each other but just haven’t expressed your feelings yet, it might be a happy relationship.
But sometimes it can also be an unhealthy situation that just drags on without direction.
In this article, we’ll introduce a collection of songs that capture the complexity of that more-than-friends, not-quite-lovers dynamic.
You’re sure to find stories that mirror your own experiences and songs that resonate and move your heart.
Be sure to read the lyrics and listen while taking in each song’s story.
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More Than Friends, Not Quite Lovers: A Collection of Love Songs About Delicate Relationships (1–10)
Just a FriendMrs. GREEN APPLE
Mrs.
GREEN APPLE continues to captivate many fans with music that blends uniqueness and diversity.
Their song “Just a Friend,” released in 2017, is included on the album “Mrs.
GREEN APPLE,” which showcases the band’s wide musical range.
The track poignantly portrays a single-minded love caught between friendship and romance, deeply resonating with listeners.
In particular, many will relate to the lyrics that convey the frustration of unreciprocated feelings and the inner conflict that comes with them.
For those struggling with jealousy or possessiveness, this song may offer a chance to reexamine their emotions and find a way to move beyond them.
playing loversmakaroni enpitsu
A bittersweet love song by Macaroni Empitsu that portrays emotions wavering at a crossroads of fate.
Hattori’s delicate vocals beautifully express the complex feelings of a protagonist who can’t bring themselves to confess.
Released as a digital-only single in February 2020, the song drew attention as a tie-in for Honda’s collaborative project “Hop on a Bike? MUSIC FES.” It was also featured in a Spotify commercial, resonating with many listeners.
It’s a perfect track for anyone who’s in love but can’t take that first step.
Give it a listen, and maybe it’ll give you the courage to share your feelings.
More than friends, less than loversAsa
Singer-songwriter ASA, who performs under the tagline “Songs for people who want to die,” captivates listeners with music steeped in a singular worldview.
The track ‘More Than Friends, Less Than Lovers,’ released digitally on September 19, 2022, features a piano-led ensemble that creates a sentimental resonance.
The lyrics evoke the struggle of grappling with the gap between one’s own feelings and the other person’s, as well as with reality, making us keenly feel the complexity and fragility of the human heart.
For anyone who’s been in the same situation, it’s an achingly bittersweet pop tune that’s impossible not to relate to.
to fall in loveSHISHAMO
It’s an adorable love song that captures that heart-thumping moment when a guy friend you never consciously thought about suddenly becomes someone you like.
Many people have probably experienced being startled by a small gesture or expression from someone you considered just a friend, and then finding your interactions becoming awkward from that point on.
Because they weren’t in your romantic sights before, you may feel like you’ve shown too much of your true self and think, “It’s too late now.” But it might be that the reason they stayed by your side all this time is because they had a good impression of the real you.
Why not take the plunge and tell them how you feel?
More than friends, less than loversmatsumura kanau
This is a song by Kanau Matsumura that portrays the frustration of a relationship that never progresses and the inner conflict over breaking the status quo.
For those who want to move beyond just friends, or whose feelings go unnoticed by the other person, it’s likely a highly relatable track.
The gentle acoustic sound is joined by strings, which seem to express a swell of emotion.
The line about regretting that it might have been better not to become friends at all, if it was only going to cause this much pain, directly conveys a heart in anguish.
You know what,are-kun &『yuika’}
A refreshing melody that evokes the feeling of spring and lyrics depicting the innocence of first love make a lasting impression! Released in April 2022, it’s a duet by Are-kun and Yuika.
Created solely through exchanges on social media, the two reportedly met in person for the first time at the recording—an on-trend backstory that also drew attention.
The song realistically conveys the frustrating emotions of two people who care for each other but can’t quite express their feelings.
The music video, brimming with youthful charm, features a boy and a girl in high school confessing their feelings as cherry blossoms flutter down—a hot topic as well.
It’s recommended not only for those with an unrequited crush, but also for anyone looking to start a new romance with the arrival of spring.
Not quite loversTENSONG
A bittersweet song by TENSONG that captures the fluttering feelings of love swaying in a fragile and unstable relationship.
The longing to become lovers and the desire not to break the current bond collide, striking a chord in the heart.
Takabō’s clear, translucent vocals delicately portray the earnest delivery of feelings to the other person.
Released in May 2023, this track is recommended for anyone moved by the frustration of love—unable to suppress your feelings, yet unable to be honest about them.