For couples who are planning to hold their wedding ceremony or reception, deciding on the details of the event can be quite a challenge.
Some may think, “I want to include the classic elements I’ve always admired,” while others might want to “create something that all the guests will truly enjoy.” There are many different wishes and ideas.
Among them, many couples also want to “incorporate something uniquely us that will become a once-in-a-lifetime memory.”
In this article, we’ll introduce some slightly unusual and fun wedding ideas.
These are especially recommended for couples looking for wedding elements that guests likely haven’t experienced at ceremonies they’ve attended before.
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A roundup of fun wedding performances: Make your reception uniquely memorable with rare and creative ideas! (1–10)
Clairstoria
How about creating a memorable experience for your guests by infusing your feelings into lovely candles? “Clair Historia” is a magical presentation where, after lighting a candle, you extinguish the flame by placing a lid on the candle case—a technique called “sealing”—and a message appears on the lid.
Candles add elegance just by being placed on the table, and they can also serve as place cards.
Best of all, it’s a charming way to convey a personal message of thanks to each guest.
If everyone blows out the candlelight together, it can foster a sense of unity in the venue.
If you’re thinking of incorporating candles into your wedding, definitely consider this idea.
Cutting into something other than the cake
The cake-cutting ceremony is a classic event at wedding receptions—people often call it “the couple’s first joint task.” But how about doing that cutting ritual with something other than cake? The options are only limited by your imagination: traditional Japanese sweets, omelet rice, and more.
We also recommend chirashi sushi—it’s festive, luxurious, and considered auspicious! You could choose something related to the couple’s first date, their work, or their hobbies.
To make it easy for guests to see, it’s best to make whatever you’ll be cutting on the larger side.
Dozen Roses Ceremony
If you want not only the bride and groom but also the guests to take part in the ceremony, the Dūzen Rose Ceremony is recommended.
Typically, the groom receives 12 roses from the guests, ties them into a bouquet, and presents it to the bride.
The bride then removes one rose from the twelve and places it in the groom’s breast pocket to return his love.
Each of the twelve roses carries its own meaning—gratitude, sincerity, happiness, and more.
If you’re not set on strict formality, there are plenty of ways to customize it: swap the roses for your favorite flowers, increase the number of blooms, and make your wedding even more memorable.
Fruit liqueur making
There are various ways to interact with guests by going around the tables, but the one I’d like to introduce here is making fruit liqueur.
The bride and groom carry a large jar and visit each table.
Guests then place the fruit they have in front of them into the jar.
Finally, in a ceremony similar to the cake cutting, the couple pours alcohol into the jar.
Fruit liqueur keeps well for a long time, so it lets you continue enjoying the memories of your wedding reception—one of life’s big events—long after it’s over.
The vibrant colors of the fruit also make for a striking visual!
Ring boy and ring girl with a radio-controlled car
Let’s take the ring bearer and flower girl performance to the next level.
Imagine a little one making an entrance riding in a big RC car! Seeing them “drive” a tiny car is so cute it’ll keep the smiles coming.
The best part is that since it’s remote-controlled, there’s no risk of bumping into something or getting stuck.
No driving skills required, so it’s completely worry-free.
Team up the child and the operator to deliver happiness to the bride and groom!
One More Cheers
It’s not very well-known at Japanese weddings yet, but “one more cheers” is a classic in Europe and the U.S.
By having everyone toast again in the middle or at the end of the reception, you can lift the celebratory mood once more.
For example, after the outfit change, you can say, “Let’s toast again!” Or, if things get a bit sentimental after sharing words to your parents at the end, you can brighten the atmosphere with another cheerful toast.
For a mid-reception one-more-cheers, it’s also nice for the bride and groom to go from table to table, greeting guests and toasting with each group.
Keep it more casual than the first toast, and have fun ramping up the energy!
Colored drip cake
Since it’s your once-in-a-lifetime wedding reception, having that extra touch of “wow” is an important element, don’t you think? A fresh alternative to the classic cake-cutting is the colored drip cake.
As the name suggests, you pour a brightly colored sauce over the wedding cake, letting it drip down.
Watching the cake come to life in real time is incredibly emotional! It’s a wonderful way to heighten the feeling of a truly special moment.
Why not try this adorable, delicious show-stopper for an unforgettable effect?