Everyone has their own views on love, but unless you’re best friends, you rarely get the chance to really talk them through, right?
Even if there’s someone you’re interested in, it feels weird to suddenly ask about their views on love—but you still want to know.
In those moments, why not try a quick and fun “love either-or quiz”? It’s an easy way to enjoy yourselves and learn about the other person’s thoughts and values on relationships.
It’s great for couples to play when you’re bored, and it’s also a hit at drinking parties—guaranteed to liven things up.
Go ahead and discreetly check out that person’s take on love!
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[Ultimate Choice?] A Two-Option Love Quiz to Reveal Your Partner’s Views on Romance (1–10)
Which would you rather date: someone who is kind only to you, or someone who is kind to everyone?
Being kind is a wonderful thing! But sometimes that kindness can hurt people, too.
You often hear “I like kind people,” but seeing someone be kind to everyone can make you feel uneasy.
Maybe that’s where strong possessiveness comes from, too.
If you were to date someone, would you prefer a person who is very controlling or someone who says it’s okay to cheat?
Saying “somewhere in between” isn’t allowed, so if I have to choose… that’s a tough question, isn’t it? Depending on the person, some might think, “If cheating is allowed, lucky me!” But “it’s okay to cheat” could also be taken as “You’re not interested in me?” or “Do you think it’s okay if I cheat?”
When your partner is invited to a drinking party with members of the opposite sex, do you send them off cheerfully or not let them go?
Isn’t this a question that reveals how possessive or jealous a person can be? Even if they say “You can go,” they get angry unless you keep in frequent contact, or insist you send photo proof—many people have probably had fights like this with past partners.
You’d likely hear lots of stories, ranging from those who don’t want you to go even if they know it’s just friends, to those who don’t mind at all.
If your partner cheats, would you break up or stay together?
Isn’t this the kind of question where opinions will be divided? Some people might think, “I just can’t get past it on a visceral level; I’ll keep dwelling on it, so I can’t keep dating you.” Others might forgive if the person swears they’ll never do it again and even begs on their knees.
In the end, it may really depend on how the other person responds.
Which would you rather date: someone who’s lax with time or someone who’s lax with money?
I want to say “neither!” but since it’s an ultimate either-or question, I’ll answer.
It’s the kind of issue that ties back to past relationships—like feeling turned off by someone’s sloppy side or having problems over money.
Still, I really don’t like either option, you know? (lol)
Is getting back together with an ex a yes or a no?
You might hear people say, “It depends on the person,” but surely many would say it’s absolutely impossible! Generally speaking, women tend to make a clean break, while men are more likely to have lingering feelings for their exes.
The answers probably vary depending on gender, too.
If you were to date someone, would you prefer a partner with 10 exes or none?
I’m sure there are people who feel hesitant about being someone’s first boyfriend or girlfriend.
It also depends on both people’s ages.
If someone is young but has dated more than 10 people, that might make you stop and think.
It seems like the answers would differ between men and women.
If you and your best friend fall for the same person, would you step back or not give up?
You often see this in manga and dramas, right? Your best friend confides that they like someone, and it turns out it’s the same person you like.
Then there’s the separate dilemma: do you say, “I like them too,” or keep quiet and continue having feelings in silence? It’s a topic with a lot of room to explore, so it seems like a question where you can glimpse a more nuanced view on love.
If the person you like already has a partner, would you give up or not?
Feelings of falling for someone aren’t so easily stopped…
However, some people may lose interest if they find out the person already has a partner.
The answer also depends on whether it’s just a slight crush or if you’re already deeply in love.
Which is harder to forgive: someone who cheated with three different people, or someone who cheated with the same person three times?
The number of times you’ve been cheated on may be the same, but whether it’s by the same person or by different people makes a huge difference in how it feels, doesn’t it? Being cheated on is awful either way, but if you had to choose… it’s the ultimate dilemma.
Even if cheating is a complete deal-breaker for you, try thinking about which would still be the lesser evil!


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