A boyfriend blushing without thinking! Fun and embarrassing dares that will liven things up
When you play a quick game at home, it suddenly gets exciting when there’s a penalty for the loser, doesn’t it? She wins, and now it’s time to decide what penalty he should do… Here’s a list of recommended penalties for just that situation.
Even things you normally do can feel fun and hype-worthy when you make them a penalty.
Pick a fun penalty that suits his personality—something he’d never usually do—so it becomes a memorable moment in your shared history!
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Your boyfriend can't help but blush! Fun and embarrassing punishments that liven things up (11–20)
Bad-tasting drinks and foods
Drink-related penalty games are a staple in variety shows, aren’t they? Aojiru, senburi tea, and sour juices are classics.
However, these days there might be many drinks and foods that have been improved to taste better.
Since a penalty game doesn’t work unless it tastes bad, if you’re going to prank your boyfriend, going after foods and drinks he dislikes could be a good tactic.
It might also be fun to blindfold him and have him taste them in advance! Give it a try!
princess carry
Princess carries are something every couple wants to try at least once—or has already tried.
If your girlfriend hasn’t experienced it yet, you could even have her ask for it as a penalty in a game! It might be easier to nudge a broad-shouldered, athletic boyfriend, but if he’s on the slender side, it really amps up the “penalty game” vibe.
Doing it at home cuts the embarrassment in half, so set rules like going outside and covering a certain number of meters in a princess carry—you’ll really get that penalty-game atmosphere!
Impressions and quick gags
Impressions and quick gags are classic and popular penalty games.
If you’re doing it as a couple, it’s a good idea to decide in advance which person or character you want him to imitate.
Think of impressions that suit your boyfriend—his voice, facial expressions, singing, and so on.
You could also have him go all out with a comedian’s signature gag.
From something that makes you chuckle, like Yoshio Kojima’s “Sonna no kankei nee!” (That doesn’t matter!), to cool-voice lines, this penalty game lets you enjoy a wide range of themes.
Try giving him a penalty that might reveal a new side of his charm.
Show a photo of your student ID (or similar)
Old student IDs, passport photos, and yearbook photos are fascinating because you can somehow see the mood of the era, the fashion of the time, and even hints of family circumstances in the background.
Some people, especially those who had a “debut” in high school or college, might find their earlier selves unbearably embarrassing.
That’s exactly why they make perfect material for a penalty game.
I hope you’ll show them to each other and have a good laugh.
The bigger the contrast with the past, the more fun the penalty game will be.
kabedon (slamming a hand against the wall to pin someone, often seen in romance contexts)
When it comes to classic romance-themed dares, kabedon has to be the go-to.
You corner the other person against a wall and place one or both hands on the wall so they can’t escape—yeah, that one.
It makes your heart race when someone does it to you, and it’s a common scene in shoujo manga, but actually doing it in real life is pretty embarrassing…! Instead of laughing it off, act like you’re a cool, handsome lead and give it your best shot! If you want to make the dare even tougher, try whispering sweet words and holding eye contact in that position for 10 seconds—highly recommended!
exposé showdown
Let’s take this chance to get your boyfriend to spill things he normally wouldn’t talk about—like drinking mishaps or past relationships, the kind of “I’ve kept quiet about this, but actually…” stories.
It’s also a good idea to specify the topic of the confession when you announce the penalty game.
He’s the one who has to take the penalty, but you might find yourself nervous and on edge, wondering what kind of stories will come out! Of course, you can laugh and have fun with the entertaining ones, and this penalty game is also recommended for couples who think, “We want even a penalty game to be a chance to learn more about each other!”
Your boyfriend will blush! Fun and embarrassing party punishments that liven things up (21–30)
chin lift (gently lifting someone’s chin, often in a flirtatious way)
In romance stories, the often-seen “ago-kui” refers to a man lifting a woman’s chin with his finger to make eye contact.
Since it naturally brings them closer, many women probably feel their hearts race when they see that scene.
So as a punishment game, have your boyfriend do an ago-kui to you! Basically, ago-kui is something handsome characters in manga and dramas do.
In real life, he’d probably be judged as a narcissist.
Doing it to a girlfriend who knows him well—rather than a woman who doesn’t—will undoubtedly push his embarrassment past the boiling point!