[For Couples] Slightly risky questions where punishments expose your true feelings
A collection of questions couples can enjoy—also great as penalty-game questions! Whether you’re out drinking or bored at home, these are sure to liven things up in no time.
You can even make answering them the forfeit in a game to boost the excitement even more.
Take this chance to ask all those embarrassing questions you’ve never dared to ask! Remember, it’s all in the spirit of fun, so avoid anything that might make things awkward or cause tension.
[For Couples] Slightly Dangerous Questions That Reveal True Feelings as a Punishment Game (1–10)
What are you into? (What’s your fetish?)
Some of you might already be openly talking about it on a regular basis, but apart from that, if you have a secret “actually…” kind of fetish, we’d love to hear about that too! Let’s dig deeper into why that particular fetish, and what exactly draws you to it!
Can you tell me 10 things you like about me?
Many people probably find it hard to ask someone directly, “Tell me what you like about me,” don’t they? Since it’s a penalty game, let’s have them go all out and give 10 answers this time! Will the 10 come out smoothly? Or will they stumble and stammer…? Either way, it’s something you’ll want to remember going forward!
How old were you when you had your first love? Tell me the story!
How much do you remember about your first love? If you experienced it back in kindergarten or nursery school, your memories might be hazy and not very clear, but you’d still want to hear about your crush’s childhood stories too, right? Remember, it’s just about first love—no jealousy!
How many people have you dated so far?
The number of people they’ve dated so far—this is something you’ll want to ask openly without holding back! The answer can vary depending on their current age, but if you kind of knew yet weren’t sure, this could be a good chance to find out for sure.
Where was your first kiss?
When you ask where someone had their first kiss, details like their age at the time and stories about the person they were with come tumbling out, don’t they? If it’s something from long ago, from when they were very young, it might be a nostalgic topic to chat about, but if it’s from the past few years, you might feel a bit jealous.
What was your first impression?
That classic pattern in dramas where things blossom into romance after “My first impression of them was the worst.” You actually see it surprisingly often in real life too, right? Like, “They’re so loud,” “Their tone is harsh,” “We’re not a good match,” but once you open up to them, you find they’re a really good person.
Let’s go ahead and draw out those honest first impressions.
Do you look at the other person’s phone or not?
People often say that “nothing good ever comes from looking through your partner’s phone,” but which type are you and your partner: the type who looks, or the type who doesn’t? If you’re in the camp that does look, it might be worth presenting your reasons—why you look, or why you find yourself doing it.


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