[For Couples] Slightly risky questions where punishments expose your true feelings

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I’ve been playing the Electone since I was six, mainly performing Disney music, anime songs, and music from dramas and films. I post performance videos on YouTube and social media, and I also give concerts. Building on my Electone experience, I took up synthesizer and piano during my student years and performed at school-sponsored events. As a writer, I’ve covered not only music-related topics but a wide range of genres, so I hope to draw on my experience to deliver articles that make readers think, “I want to try that!” or “I want to listen to that!”
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A person from the melodic hardcore boom generation who loves music, photography, and eating. I’ve been going to live houses for over 20 years. I’m at the age where summer festivals are starting to feel tough physically. I sometimes try shooting live photos and videos for MVs. I’m not great at English, so I often listen to straightforward Japanese rock that hits directly, but if someone recommends something, I’ll listen to anything—Western or Japanese—broadly and casually. I like cooking while listening to music; it’s a nice way to relieve stress.

A collection of questions couples can enjoy—also great as penalty-game questions! Whether you’re out drinking or bored at home, these are sure to liven things up in no time.

You can even make answering them the forfeit in a game to boost the excitement even more.

Take this chance to ask all those embarrassing questions you’ve never dared to ask! Remember, it’s all in the spirit of fun, so avoid anything that might make things awkward or cause tension.

[For Couples] Slightly Dangerous Questions That Reveal True Feelings as a Punishment Game (1–10)

Honestly, is there a date or episode you felt was a failure?

Let’s come clean about those dates you never mentioned but that felt like a flop, with an awkward vibe! Your partner might have been thinking the same thing about that time, too.

It’ll be helpful for future dates, so go ahead and answer frankly.

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When was the last time you felt a flutter for me? In what kind of moment?

Few people would straightforwardly tell their partner on the spot, “That just made my heart skip a beat!” But you do want to know about those gestures or moments that make someone’s heart flutter, right? And while part of you might think, “That? Really?” at the answers, you also feel happy.

Even if you didn’t intend it that way, there are irresistible points for the other person.

For the future, let’s make sure to ask about them!

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When is the moment you feel happy being with me?

There are those casual moments when you think, “Ah, I’m really happy right now…,” but you don’t often tell the other person, do you? Whether you’re eating together or zoning out while watching TV, moments of happiness are different for everyone.

The person you’re with would be thrilled to hear it, so even if you feel shy, try expressing your true feelings.

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[For Couples] Slightly Risky Questions Where Punishment Games Expose True Feelings (11–20)

Have you ever cheated?

You want them to be honest with you, right? I think most people would say they can’t forgive cheating, but it’s all in the past.

Just because someone cheated before doesn’t mean they’ll do it again, so try to take it in stride and draw everything out of them—including their excuses!

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Is there just one thing you want me to fix?

Even couples who are head over heels in love probably have at least one thing they’d like their partner to change, right? If you’ve kept quiet because it felt too nitpicky, here’s your chance to say it! Since it’s a forfeit game, make sure no one gets genuinely angry or starts a real fight because of this question!

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What words that have been said to me so far made me happy?

Are there any words you keep like a good-luck charm within yourself, even though you haven’t told the person who said them? Words you kept secret in your heart because you were too shy to let the other person know.

Even if you hadn’t planned to say them, why not try sharing them now? The person you tell will probably be quite happy to hear it.

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