An empathy song to listen to when you’re hurting and feel like a 'convenient woman'

SecondNakasone Izumi

Izumi Nakasone (HY) “Second” Friends ~Convenient Woman~ Edition

HY is a band from Okinawa known for their heart-wrenching love songs.

Their keyboardist and vocalist, Izumi Nakasone, sings this track “Second,” which is only one minute long but, as the title suggests, tightly packs in the feelings of being the “second woman.” The one-minute song she posted on Instagram went viral and was released on an album as “One-Minute Love Song.” You get pulled along by the fun memories with him, the happy moments, and above all the feeling of loving him—but when you snap back to reality, you realize there were overwhelmingly more moments of sadness.

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Codependence / Riu Domura (Lyric Video)

A poignant love song by Riu Domura that delicately portrays a heart unable to escape loneliness and anxiety.

It’s striking for its depiction of a woman’s inner conflict as she realizes that, even while drowning in a codependent relationship, she’s nothing more than a convenient presence.

Released in May 2019, the song is included on the album “Escape,” with a remixed version later featured on the album “Night View.” It’s a track that offers comfort to those told their love is “too heavy” because they feel too strongly, or to anyone still carrying the pain of a difficult heartbreak.

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Ren – Can't Bring Myself to Hate You (Music Video)

A work that sings of emotions born in the space between loss and lingering attachment.

Even when cornered into a situation where they can’t help but depend on the other person, their love is so deep they can’t even bring themselves to hate them.

Ren’s clear, translucent vocals capture that aching feeling beautifully.

The lyrics vividly portray the subtle, complex emotions hidden deep in the heart, creating a worldview that truly resonates.

Released in September 2021, this piece is also known as Ren’s debut song.

Its delicate, acoustic guitar–driven arrangement enhances the poignancy of the vocals.

It’s a song that stays with you when you’re suffering from lingering attachment or obsession toward someone you love, or when you love them so much you can’t let go.

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Otoboke Beaver – Datsu, Hikage no Onna [Official Music Video]

Otoboke Beaver is an all-female punk rock band formed in 2009 by four members who met in a university music club.

Their track “Dat$u-Nikkai Onna” (I’m Not Anyone’s Substitute) was released in 2019.

Above all, the lyrics are hilarious—they’ll make you chuckle.

The Kansai dialect adds even more charm.

Paired with authentic punk music, it’s truly refreshing.

When you’re going through something tough, it’s fine to sink into it, but if you want to switch up your mood, this song is perfect.

Definitely give it a listen.

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Soala – Passing Each Other [Official Music Video]

A heartrending love song by Soala that delicately portrays the clumsy emotions of falling in love.

It beautifully captures the fragile moment of parting born from the inability to be honest with the one you love.

Many will relate to the protagonist, who regrets their actions even as they recognize their excessive possessiveness and self-centered behavior.

Released in July 2023, the song drew attention with its airy vocals and comfortable R&B vibe, racking up 20 million streams in just six months.

The warm voice that seems to wrap around a troubled heart and the down-to-earth lyrics truly resonate.

It’s a recommended track for anyone who has ever caused distance by caring too much, or who is struggling with their relationship with a beloved partner.

You let me do as I please, and yet…arekunn

You’re the one who let me fall for you / Arekun [Official Music Video]

A heart-wrenching love song by Are-kun that delicately portrays the feelings of a woman suffering from complex emotions after being led on and ultimately betrayed.

The protagonist falls in love and rides an emotional roller coaster in response to the other person’s behavior, while gradually sensing the loneliness of a cooling relationship.

Released in September 2020 and included on the album “Breath,” the song gained traction primarily on social media and drew widespread empathy.

It’s a resonant track that offers comfort to anyone who’s been strung along by suggestive behavior or is struggling with their feelings for someone they care about.

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Scumbag Man and Idiot Woman – Riu Domura (Official Audio) Prod. Misty Melody

This track, included on Riu Domura’s album Irregular Diary released in April 2024, resonated with younger listeners and became a major topic on social media.

It portrays a relationship between a man who whispers the lie “I love you” solely to be showered with money, and a woman who falls for him and loses sight of true happiness.

The lyrics are written entirely from the man’s perspective, making you think, “What awful lyrics…,” but in the end the narrator shifts and delivers the message, “Don’t get caught by a guy like this.” Featuring a bad man who controls for money, the song gives you the courage to break free from a distorted relationship.