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[Punishment Game] Questions that reveal your friends’ or crush’s views on love

[Punishment Game] Questions that reveal your friends’ or crush’s views on love
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One indispensable element for livening up games and activities is the penalty game.

It’s also a great idea to add penalty games when you’re playing with friends or someone you’re interested in.

In this article, we’ve picked out penalty game questions with a romance theme.

Many of these questions reveal what conditions and preferences someone has for a partner, so they can be a good way to get closer to friends or someone you like.

Another point is that you might hear honest opinions that don’t usually come up.

Try incorporating romance-related questions into your penalty games and give them a go.

[Penalty Game] Questions that reveal your friends’ or crush’s views on love (1–10)

How big an age difference could you date with?

First confession, too! I’ll answer all your questions in a love-talk-only Q&A!
How big an age difference could you date with?

How big the age gap is between two people is also considered an important point in whether a relationship will develop.

As the term “age-gap couple” suggests, when ages are closer, there tends to be less of a gap and it feels easier to build a smooth relationship.

This question asks whether you can accept a relationship with an age difference and, if so, how large a difference you would be comfortable with.

Let’s think about the ways age differences can make continuing a relationship more difficult, and whether love can overcome those challenges.

It also seems like a topic that can reveal each person’s views on age.

Timing to get jealous

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Timing to get jealous

In romantic feelings, we sometimes feel jealous when someone’s attention is directed at someone other than ourselves.

This question explores when people have felt that kind of jealousy, along with their personal experiences and ways of thinking.

Even small episodes of feeling jealous can reveal the strength of the affection that person has.

It could also be engaging to ask how they acted when they felt jealous, how they managed to suppress the jealousy that arose within them, and what strategies they used to avoid or cope with it.

What are you into? (What’s your fetish?)

I had way too much fun doing a love/relationship Q&A with Kirimaru-chan lol
What are you into? (What’s your fetish?)

Fetishism—often shortened to “fetish”—originally is a slightly difficult term that refers to the worship of charms or objects.

These days, it’s used more broadly to mean things that strongly capture our interest.

Coming out about your fetishes could make for a lively truth-or-dare-style punishment game! Every man wonders what parts of a man the woman he likes pays attention to.

And learning that a seemingly ordinary guy likes something unusual—say, women’s high heels or split ends—could be a chance to discover unexpected sides of both men and women.

Number of times I’ve been confessed to

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Number of times I've been confessed to

A confession is a major turning point leading to a relationship, and who takes the initiative to express their feelings tends to draw attention as well.

This question asks you to reflect on your experiences of being confessed to—specifically, how many times it has happened in your life.

The number can give a sense of how much someone has been liked and offers a glimpse into their life journey.

Asking what kind of people have confessed to them can also broaden your imagination about what they have meant to those around them.

By not only asking how many times they were confessed to but also how many times they themselves confessed and comparing the two, you can get a sense of what kind of person they are in terms of how they act.

minimum dating period

[100 Questions] May this reach my destined person. [This is the love outlook of someone in their late 20s to early 30s]
minimum dating period

Even if a relationship develops into dating, it can still end without going well.

This question focuses on those unsuccessful dating periods and asks how short the shortest one was.

You can also glean each person’s approach to relationships—for example, those who try to improve and sustain the relationship versus those who quickly distance themselves when they sense a mismatch.

If the period was extremely short, drawing out an anecdote about why it ended so quickly could make for an engaging conversation.

Appearance or personality

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Appearance or personality

This is a question that asks, in romantic relationships and other interactions, whether someone prioritizes appearance or focuses on what’s inside regardless of looks.

Since it’s rare for people to care only about one or the other, it’s better to ask which one they value more.

Even within the words “appearance” and “what’s inside,” there are different aspects, so try to dig into which specific parts they prioritize.

This kind of question not only reveals the direction each person is looking, but can also provide an opportunity to learn what they’re willing to accept.

Can friendship between men and women exist?

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This question raises the classic doubt about whether it’s difficult for men and women to remain just friends.

It explores different perspectives on whether romantic feelings inevitably develop as they interact, or whether they can maintain a purely platonic relationship.

Another key point is whether gender differences affect friendship, which can also reveal people’s usual awareness and attitudes toward the opposite sex.

Beyond understanding each person’s viewpoint, the question may also give you a sense of how the person being asked feels about you.