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With friends or couples! A set of questions perfect for penalty games

When was your first love? What’s your ideal date? Questions like these make anyone blush, right? But they’re actually perfect for penalty games! Not only can you discover an unexpected side of someone, you also get to enjoy their embarrassed reactions.

In this article, we’ll introduce great romance-related questions that are sure to liven up the mood.

They’re perfect for parties or casual hangouts with friends—questions that will make hearts flutter and everyone laugh! Be sure to include them in your next game’s penalty!

Romance-themed penalty game questions (11–20)

Where should I confess?

Where should I confess?

The places where people confess their feelings really vary, don’t they? Some have romantic settings like a restaurant with a night view or an amusement park like Disney, while others have heartwarming stories like “I just confessed naturally at home.” It’s interesting, isn’t it?

What do you like about them?

What do you like about them?

When you take a fresh look at what you fell in love with about your partner, it seems like you might make new discoveries—and that’s pretty exciting! Even the qualities you’ve come to take for granted might feel precious again when you consciously think back on them.

You might just fall for them all over again after this penalty game is over.

How many times have you been rejected so far?

How many times have you been rejected so far?

The number of times I got dumped that I wish I could erase from my history.

Some people might have sealed those memories away along with some intense episodes.

As a kind of forfeit, tell us everything—how many times you got dumped and the stories behind them—and let this be an opportunity to cleanse that dark history!

How many people have you dated so far?

How many people have you dated so far?

The number of people you’ve dated so far—I’d like you to tell me that without holding anything back! The answer will vary depending on your age, of course, but if you’ve only vaguely known about your friends’ or partner’s stories and never clearly, this might be a good chance to find out.

What’s your ideal date?

What's your ideal date?

Questions about ideal dates are fun because they can elicit all sorts of answers, from the classic to the uniquely hobby-centric.

Especially among women, the conversation might shift from “ideal” to something closer to pure fantasy, with wildly unrealistic date plans—and once it starts, it might be hard to stop!

Where is the first date?

Where is the first date?

It’s time for the big first date that really gets you hyped.

Some people say they were nervous because they planned to confess their feelings that day, while others were tense because it was their first date after confessing.

Either way, it’s the kind of question that makes listeners anxious with anticipation!

Are you the type who confesses, or the type who gets confessed to?

Are you the type who confesses, or the type who gets confessed to?

Asking “Are you the type to confess or to be confessed to?” is a classic romance question.

You can also get a sense of how their views on love have changed—like, “I used to wait to be confessed to, but lately I’ve been the one to confess.” That’s why I recommend this question!

What about the proposal words and situation?

What about the proposal words and situation?

This is the kind of dare you’d want to use on newlyweds or friends who just got engaged.

A proposal is a huge event for a man.

He’s probably put a lot of thought into it and pulled off some cool lines or actions he wouldn’t normally show! Everyone around would love to hear about it, but for the person himself, it couldn’t be more embarrassing.

That said, depending on the couple, it might have been a reverse proposal from the woman! And if everyone in the group is single, having them talk about their “ideal scenario” is a great option too!

How do you call your partner? And how do they call you?

How do you call your partner? And how do they call you?

Let’s have them reveal the special names they only use for each other as a forfeit! The classic is dropping honorifics and calling each other by first name, but sometimes they actually use “-chan” or “-kun,” or even nicknames no one else knows.

For many people, that’s something they’d never want others to find out, which makes it perfect for a penalty game! If there’s a couple there, you could have them call each other by those names, too.

It might be embarrassing for them, but for everyone else it’s a forfeit that shares a bit of their happiness!

What’s your first present?

What's your first present?

First-time gifts really vary in price and type depending on the person, don’t they? Some people splurge on expensive jewelry, while others give handmade sweets or knitting.

I’m also curious about how much they cost!