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Songs that are popular with men in their 30s. Flirty songs that appeal to men.

When I asked the age of the guy I’m interested in, he turned out to be in his thirties.

So here, I’ve put together songs that resonate with that generation—timeless hits they’re likely to know.

These are tracks that people of the same generation can relate to, and that will earn you respect if you’re from a different one.

Songs that attract men in their 30s. Top 1–10 most appealing songs for men.

Tear DropKamui

A popular song by the Japanese-style dance vocal group Kamui.

It’s a collaboration between vocalist Woo—who emerged from the magazine WOOFIN’—and the street dance team Sakuran Musha.

The danceable beat paired with melancholic vocals shows great taste, making it a “mote-kyoku,” a track that can attract interest from men as well.

Fragment of the Sunorange pekoe

Orange Pekoe - Fragments of the Sun with English Subtitles
Fragment of the Sunorange pekoe

A bossa nova–tinged song, this orange pekoe classic shines with a beautiful atmosphere that perfectly fits cafes and poolside settings.

It’s a stylish track that makes you feel as if you’re dozing in warm sunlight, and for women, it’s a charming choice that showcases a keen, sophisticated taste in music.

Sweet PainMISIA

MISIA – Sweet pain (2000)
Sweet PainMISIA

This is one of MISIA’s early works that enjoyed great popularity during the school years—a sensitive time—especially for those born in the ’80s.

With a light, house-style beat paired with exquisite vocals, this song is a true classic.

Its grand sense of scale and soaring vocals make it a stylish masterpiece that can win over men’s hearts.

Songs that attract men in their 30s. Popular “appeal” songs that men like (11–20)

FREEDOMglobe

Da-iCE / 「FREEDOM(#globe20th -SPECIAL COVER BEST-)」
FREEDOMglobe

It’s a classic hit by globe, the pioneering dance-pop vocal unit.

The fast technopop track combined with energetic, powerful vocals made it popular, and it’s the kind of catchy song that lets you bask in nostalgia and relive memories from back then.

It’s especially recommended for those in their late 30s.

GardenSUGAR SOUL

garden Garden - SUGAR SOUL ft. KJ (Sugar Soul)
GardenSUGAR SOUL

Among releases from the ’90s, this is a massive hit by Sugar Soul, celebrated for its flawless melody and immersive atmosphere.

It’s especially popular with stylish, club-going women, and saying you like this song can significantly boost how men perceive you—it’s a sophisticated, irresistibly attractive track.

Hard To SayCrystal Kay

Crystal Kay「hard to say」Official Music Video
Hard To SayCrystal Kay

It’s a classic song that became a hot topic for the novelty of having a child’s voice explain that it starts with a rap.

Over a groovy track with tightly sampled cutting guitar, Crystal Kay’s clear, transparent vocals feel delightful; it’s the perfect tune for those born in the ’80s—sure to capture men’s hearts even on a drive.

Shangri-LaChatto Monchī

Chatmonchy “Shangri-La” Music Video
Shangri-LaChatto Monchī

Chatmonchy is a girls’ band that gained popularity in the 2000s with a sound rooted in pop rock and indie rock.

If you’re a woman in your 30s who likes Japanese rock, you probably listened to their songs quite a bit.

Among Chatmonchy’s tracks, the one I especially recommend is Shangri-La.

The song’s lowest note is mid2 C and the highest note is hi D#, but the hi D# appears only once, and the main high phrases are built around hi C.

While it is a high-pitched song, the range isn’t wide, so if you lower the key appropriately, it should be quite singable.