Songs that are popular with men in their 30s. Flirty songs that appeal to men.
When I asked the age of the guy I’m interested in, he turned out to be in his thirties.
So here, I’ve put together songs that resonate with that generation—timeless hits they’re likely to know.
These are tracks that people of the same generation can relate to, and that will earn you respect if you’re from a different one.
Songs that attract men in their 30s. Top 1–10 most appealing songs for men.
Love SongGO!GO!7188
For people in their 30s, this is a signature song by Go!Go!7188 that many tried to cover in high school.
It’s a slow, rootsy rock number, yet its powerful chorus melody made it very popular.
Because it held an anthem-like status among casual women listeners, it’s also a song that can leave the impression of having good taste when chosen by men.
HANABIMr.Children
Mr.Children is a band that arguably the Heisei generation listened to the most.
Whether you’re in your 30s born in the Showa era or in your 30s born in the Heisei era, you’ve probably sung one of their songs at least once.
Among their tracks, the one I especially recommend is HANABI.
It features a chorus full of excitement, yet the pitch movement is relatively steady, so you can sing it at an after-party karaoke without pushing yourself too hard.
However, it does include quite a few low G-sharp notes, so a certain depth in vocal range is required.
Crescent MoonNakajima Mika
This is a famous song by Mika Nakashima, who enjoys charismatic popularity among women in their 30s, with a danceable yet nostalgic vibe.
Set in a moon-themed fantasy world, it conveys a pure view of love, making it a heart-stirring, attractive song for men as well.
It’s a refreshing track that’s also popular at karaoke.
Get Up!SOULHEAD
It’s a happy, disco-tinged classic that was also used as a film’s theme song.
With radiant, gospel-like choruses and a beautiful blend of English and Japanese lyrics, it’s such a well-crafted track that it captivates not only those who saw the movie but listeners of all kinds.
Renowned as a consistently beloved song, it’s famous as a surefire crowd-pleaser.
flyingGARNET CROW
This is a hit song by Garnet Crow, an acoustic neo-pop band that gained fame as the theme song for the video game Tales of Eternia.
The soaring vocals that burst forth in the chorus are exhilarating and won strong support from dedicated listeners.
Many men like it as well, and it’s a song that can make a woman more popular if she sings it.
Hold me tight, all of meKinKi Kids
This is a famous song by KinKi Kids, who have earned very devoted fans mainly in their 30s and continue to be active on television today.
With straightforward lyrics that strike a chord, it’s a track that evokes a pure image of a woman and inspires men to imagine her background—a song that makes you more attractive.
Shangri-LaChatto Monchī
Chatmonchy is a girls’ band that gained popularity in the 2000s with a sound rooted in pop rock and indie rock.
If you’re a woman in your 30s who likes Japanese rock, you probably listened to their songs quite a bit.
Among Chatmonchy’s tracks, the one I especially recommend is Shangri-La.
The song’s lowest note is mid2 C and the highest note is hi D#, but the hi D# appears only once, and the main high phrases are built around hi C.
While it is a high-pitched song, the range isn’t wide, so if you lower the key appropriately, it should be quite singable.