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[For Women] Attractive Songs That Appeal to Men in Their 40s

At karaoke, doesn’t everyone want to pick songs that will win over the people they’re with? And that goes double if it’s someone of the opposite sex! In this article, we’ll introduce a selection of songs that tend to go over well with men in their 40s, aimed at women looking for tracks to sing at karaoke.

It’s important not only whether your partner likes the song, but also whether it matches their generation.

If you’re going to karaoke with a man in his 40s, choosing from the songs listed here is sure to get the party going!

[For Women] Popular, Attractive Songs That Appeal to Men in Their 40s (41–50)

Et cetera related to the seashorePUFFY

PUFFY is a female vocal duo that drew major attention from their debut with their natural style and approachable personalities.

Their 4th single, “Nagisa ni Matsuwaru Et Cetera,” was featured in a commercial for Kirin Beverage’s ‘Tennen Sodachi,’ and became a million-seller with its lyrics that evoke a unique world and its catchy melody.

Men in their 40s who likely know songwriters Yosui Inoue and Tamio Okuda in real time will get so hyped that they’ll sing along if you pick it at karaoke.

It’s a hook-filled pop tune that’s also great for large-group karaoke.

[For Women] Popular, Attractive Songs That Appeal to Men in Their 40s (51–60)

Tomorrow, when spring comesMatsu Takako

Takako Matsu – When Spring Comes Tomorrow
Tomorrow, when spring comesMatsu Takako

This is the debut single released by Takako Matsu when she was 19, even though she had already established herself as a popular actress.

Released in 1997, it became a hit, and she performed the song at that year’s Kōhaku Uta Gassen.

The lyrics were written by the renowned screenwriter Yuji Sakamoto, while Daisuke Hinata—active globally as a music producer and keyboardist—handled composition and arrangement.

It’s a light, springtime pop song that fills you with warmth just by listening.

Different from the stunning vocals she showcased in Frozen, Matsu’s fresh, youthful voice here is soothing to the heart.

It also brings back memories of Namie Amuro covering the song on a TV show at the time.

It’s very easy to sing, so relax and enjoy singing it without overthinking.

dogwood (flowering dogwood)Hitoto Yo

When it comes to singing at karaoke, it’s reassuring to choose songs everyone knows.

Hitoto Yo’s signature song “Hanamizuki” is perfect for that.

It consistently ranks near the top of karaoke popularity charts and is a beloved, moving pop classic.

Most men know it too, so it’s great for duets.

It’s a reliable number to keep in your repertoire.

Since it’s a slow song, it works really well in the early part of the session before the crowd warms up!

gentle feelingChara

Chara “Gentle Feeling (Special Kiss ver.)” Official Music Video Full Version
gentle feelingChara

Chara is a female singer who continues to captivate fans with lyrics spun from a unique perspective and her one-of-a-kind whispery voice.

Her 14th single, “Yasashii Kimochi,” used in Shiseido’s ‘T’Cera J’ commercial, remains a signature song that made her widely known and is still sung today.

Men in their 40s who likely heard it in real time may feel a sense of anticipation the moment it’s chosen at karaoke.

The cuter you sing it, the more the crowd gets excited—an ironclad, surefire song to attract attention, even from men.

TOMORROWMayo Okamoto

Mayo Okamoto “TOMORROW” Music Video
TOMORROW Mayuo Okamoto

It’s one of the iconic cheer-up songs of the 1990s, and surely there are many women who, even after turning 40, still find strength in it.

Released in 1995 as Mayu Okamoto’s debut single, “TOMORROW” was a massive hit, selling over two million copies.

Even in the Reiwa era, it remains a universally beloved anthem.

The melody, delivered with Okamoto’s straightforward and clear voice, is very easy to sing, and it doesn’t include the high-note sections typical of many hits from that time, so even those with lower voices can feel at ease.

Since the song overall has a bouncy rhythm, it’s good to sing it with crisp articulation while paying attention to the dynamics of the melodic accents.

Soft scarCocco

Singer-songwriter Cocco, who was active in the 2000s.

For those in their early to mid-40s, she’s arguably a defining artist of their generation.

Among her songs, the one I especially recommend is Yawaraka na Kizuato (Soft Scars).

It has the feel of straightforward J-pop, similar to what Aimyon represents today.

There’s a falsetto part toward the end of the chorus, but because it’s sung very softly, even those who struggle with high notes should be able to sing it without any trouble.

Between the Sky and YouNakajima Miyuki

Miyuki Nakajima is a singer-songwriter who holds the remarkable record of topping the singles chart across four decades, from the 1970s through the 2000s.

Her 31st single, “Between the Sky and You,” released as a double A-side with “Fight!,” became a million-selling hit as the theme song for the TV drama “Homeless Child,” which stirred up a nationwide social phenomenon.

The sentimental story woven by her trademark powerful vocals brings scenes from the drama vividly to mind just by listening.

It’s an emotional number that’s sure to turn heads when you sing it at karaoke.