You might see your true colors—and your partner’s? A psychological test for adult couples
Spending time with the person you love is pure happiness, isn’t it?
But the happier you are, the more immeasurable the shock can be if that happiness is shattered.
Many people may find themselves overthinking—about their partner’s true feelings, the future of the relationship, or even how they themselves really feel.
So this time, we’re introducing some adult-oriented psychological tests recommended for couples.
You’re sure to discover things you want to know—and things you might not.
Find the ones that suit you and give them a try!
You might see your own and your partner’s true nature? A psychology test for adult couples (1–10)
A psychological test that reveals your partner’s hidden personality
A psychology test that reveals your partner’s hidden personality by choosing, on instinct, which door you’d like to enter next.
There are four choices: a gold door, a wooden door, a mirrored door, and an iron door.
You might discover that they’re more realistic than you thought, or a bit greedy—traits that are usually kept under wraps.
Of course, don’t take the results at face value and let things get tense.
Treat it as a lighthearted “Maybe there’s this side to you too!” conversation starter, and have fun doing it together as a couple!
A psychological test to gauge your level of “menhera” (mental health instability)
“Menhera” originally refers to mental health—so-called “mental well-being.” Due to how the term was steered by internet memes, it now tends to refer to mental instability, such as “people struggling with mental illness or those who engage in repeated self-harm.” Some people also associate it with images like Lolita fashion, socially awkward gyaru, or socially awkward guys.
How is your mental health? Since you’re in a relationship, you want to keep both your mind and body healthy, right? It’s a fun quiz, so try it with your close friends too.
A psychological test that reveals how much you truly love your partner
“You should just break up with someone like that already” is a line you often hear in romance dramas.
When complicated problems pile up and the heroine no longer knows what to do, her friend swoops in and offers advice.
Sometimes it’s even a rival in love who says it.
If you’re wondering, “Would it really be better to break up?” this personality quiz is recommended.
Take it only as one perspective, and hopefully it will lead to a bright, drama-like turn of events.
If you’re afraid to do it alone, have a close friend look at it with you.
A psychology test to determine your level of unfaithfulness
Once upon a time, there was a period in the entertainment world when people jokingly said that cheating and infidelity were a badge of honor for men.
There aren’t many larger-than-life stars left like Shingo Yamashiro or Takajin Yashiki.
In the Reiwa era, those kinds of unfaithful acts are an instant out—which is only natural, really.
This personality test will reveal how prone you are to cheating.
Even someone who seems serious might harbor unexpected tendencies deep down.
Worried an awkward result might come out? Then start by taking it on the sly.
A personality test that reveals your views on marriage
“If you want to enjoy yourself for a week, get married; if you want to enjoy yourself for a lifetime, learn to fish”—so go the wise words of the great Hemingway.
Well, in Hemingway’s case, the focus was more on “fishing” than “marriage,” but there are countless famous—and infamous—sayings about marriage.
Opposite the claim that “marriage is the grave of life,” there’s the heartwarming idea that “marriage halves the hardships and doubles the joys.” What’s your view of marriage? Be sure to enjoy discussing it together as a couple.
A psychology test that reveals differences in anxiety levels
What kinds of anxieties do you have? If you’re a student, it might be studying or club activities; if you’re a working adult, it could be your job or career advancement.
Everyone has worries to some extent.
That’s true even for couples who are dating smoothly.
You might suddenly feel anxious from any direction: Will they properly introduce me to their friends? Are they just playing with me? Will we get married in the future? This psychological test can gauge the extent of your anxiety, so it might be recommended for those who feel vaguely uneasy about their partner.
Try it by yourself first!
A psychological test to find your erogenous zones
When you hear the word erogenous zone, it might sound very adult, but things like feeling your nape when hair brushes against it or the elastic of your socks tickling you show how subtle and varied people’s sensory nerves can be.
I can’t stand it when someone touches my ears—it tickles so much that I always end up laughing.
I even hated having my ears cleaned by my mother when I was a child.
I wonder if that counts as an erogenous zone too.
Would it be okay to talk about slightly adult erogenous zones between lovers? Try exploring together and have fun with it, mixing in some funny stories!
A psychological test to find out how others see you
Even people who don’t really care what others think and believe other people’s opinions have nothing to do with them will probably still wonder, “What does my partner think of me?” Even in a happy relationship, your partner might secretly be thinking, “They’re a good person, but I wish they were a bit more relaxed…” You can’t read someone’s mind, even if you’re a couple.
That’s where this psychological test comes in.
And even if you get a negative result—like being treated like a child or not being trusted deep down—please don’t start a fight.
A psychological test that reveals your mindset after a breakup
A story about pet loss.
It seems that the best way to cope with pet loss is to start keeping a new pet right away.
Most people say, “I can’t switch my feelings that quickly,” but it appears that most of what we call “-loss” comes from the anxiety of not knowing where to direct one’s affection.
How about in romance? After a sad breakup, are you someone who can switch your feelings quickly, or someone who can’t recover for a long time? This is a rather cruel? psychological test to do as a couple, so if you’re going to try it, please do it alone!
A personality test that reveals how jealous you are
What kind of feelings do you have when someone you like or a close friend seems to be having fun with someone else, or appears to be doing better than you? In this personality test, your level of jealousy can be revealed by how you answer questions like which flower you would choose in a given situation.
Everyone experiences emotions like jealousy and envy, though the degree varies from person to person.
By understanding your type, you may be able to better control your emotions and identify points to be careful about depending on the person you’re dealing with.