[Love Songs] Say Goodbye to Uncertain Feelings! Love Songs to Listen to When You’re Not Sure If You Like Someone
A collection of songs to listen to when you’re not sure if it’s love.
From the hazy feeling of “I feel calm and have so much fun when we’re together, but is this love?” to songs that capture the cooling of feelings after you start dating, we’ve picked a wide range.
If you want tracks that might help you find an answer to your own uncertain “Do I like them?”—whether it’s a long-standing childhood-friend relationship that blurs the line between friendship and romance, or a bond where you want them by your side but can’t see them as a romantic partner—this is for you!
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[Love Songs] Say Goodbye to Uncertain Feelings! Love Songs to Listen to When You’re Not Sure If You Like Someone (21–30)
chameleonKing Gnu
“Chameleon” is a song that depicts the gradual cooling of someone’s feelings.
It’s by the rock band King Gnu and is also known as the theme song for the drama “Mystery to Iu Nakare.” The lyrics specifically liken the other person’s change of heart to a chameleon.
Rather than simply lamenting the shift, the song highlights an attempt to accept it, which is a key point.
It’s sure to serve as an anthem for anyone going through a similar experience.
What’s certain ismakaroni enpitsu
As you spend your days with someone important, small misunderstandings are bound to happen.
This song seems like one that, at moments when you feel you’re losing sight of the other person, gives you a chance to reflect on your original feelings and the unchanging truths between you.
The gentle sound of Macaroni Enpitsu leaves the impression that it quietly soothes an unsettled heart.
The emotionally charged vocals also convey a great love that is reborn after looking back at yourself.
It’s a song that seems to help rebuild an unstable heart when you no longer understand your own feelings or the other person’s, and that strengthens your resolve to face your emotions.
trespassingzutto mayonaka de ii no ni.
It’s an impressive song that feels like it puts the uncertainty of “I’m not sure if I like them” directly into the lyrics.
The way the other person’s presence sneaks into the heart like “trespassing” is portrayed with delicate nuance.
The protagonist’s emotional ups and downs over the other person’s smallest gestures and words are sure to resonate with listeners.
Included on ZUTOMAYO’s third album, “Jinkougaku,” this track was released in June 2023 and was also chosen as the theme song for ABEMA’s popular romance show “Kyou, Suki ni Narimashita.” It’s a must-listen for anyone confused about their romantic feelings or struggling with the dynamics of their relationship.
Blue AmbienceMrs. GREEN APPLE
A song by Mrs.
GREEN APPLE that gently wraps the ambiguity of young love.
While cherishing one’s true self, it delicately portrays the feelings of youths pining for romance.
Released in June 2022, it drew attention as the theme song for ABEMA’s popular show “Kyou, Suki ni Narimashita” (“Today, I Fell in Love”).
The track is included on the mini-album “Unity,” which garnered notice alongside other tie-in songs.
It’s recommended for those struggling with a relationship with someone they like or unsure of their own feelings.
Why not listen to this song and face the true emotions within you?
I like that kind of thing.wacci
Having poured every kind of love-related worry into their songs, wacci this time portrays the heart of a woman bewildered by her own feelings of love.
The lyrics, which describe the pain of being out of sync with her partner and the inner conflict of continuing a convenient relationship, have resonated with many listeners.
Released in April 2024, this work is the first in a new series of love song releases from wacci.
The music video starring Airi Matsui also drew attention.
It’s a perfect song for those struggling with the hard-to-define “Do I like them?” feeling—whether you’re in a more-than-friends-but-not-quite-lovers situation or dealing with emotions that cool after you start dating.
What is it? lolFuji Kaze
This is Fujii Kaze’s debut song, notable for lyrics that incorporate the Okayama dialect and a uniquely styled sound.
Blending elements of jazz and gospel, it’s characterized by the harmony between impactful wording and melody.
It’s known for depicting complex human relationships and emotional conflict.
Released in May 2020, it became a pivotal work in his career, designated as his major-label debut date alongside the release of the EP “Nan-Nan w EP.” It’s recommended for those struggling with a relationship or uncertain about their own feelings.
You’ll surely be drawn in by its Western-style groove and Fujii Kaze’s seductive vocal delivery.
Just so you know, this feeling isn’t love!Tensen Tensei Shoujo.
A sweet and bittersweet song by Tensen Tensei Shoujo that portrays the feelings of a girl who’s fallen in love but can’t be honest with her emotions.
Even as she denies, “It’s not love,” her heart flutters whenever she thinks about the person she likes—a feeling captured with striking realism.
Released in May 2024, this pop number expresses the heart of a classic tsundere girl.
It’s said to ignite the crowd so much that the atmosphere of the venue completely changes every time it’s performed live.
It’s a recommended track not only for those with a one-sided crush, but also for anyone who wants to look back on the sweet and sour memories of their youth.