[Love Songs] Say Goodbye to Uncertain Feelings! Love Songs to Listen to When You’re Not Sure If You Like Someone
A collection of songs to listen to when you’re not sure if it’s love.
From the hazy feeling of “I feel calm and have so much fun when we’re together, but is this love?” to songs that capture the cooling of feelings after you start dating, we’ve picked a wide range.
If you want tracks that might help you find an answer to your own uncertain “Do I like them?”—whether it’s a long-standing childhood-friend relationship that blurs the line between friendship and romance, or a bond where you want them by your side but can’t see them as a romantic partner—this is for you!
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[Love Songs] Say Goodbye to Uncertain Feelings! Love Songs to Listen to When You’re Not Sure If You Like Someone (21–30)
I like that kind of thing.wacci
Having poured every kind of love-related worry into their songs, wacci this time portrays the heart of a woman bewildered by her own feelings of love.
The lyrics, which describe the pain of being out of sync with her partner and the inner conflict of continuing a convenient relationship, have resonated with many listeners.
Released in April 2024, this work is the first in a new series of love song releases from wacci.
The music video starring Airi Matsui also drew attention.
It’s a perfect song for those struggling with the hard-to-define “Do I like them?” feeling—whether you’re in a more-than-friends-but-not-quite-lovers situation or dealing with emotions that cool after you start dating.
trespassingzutto mayonaka de ii no ni.
It’s an impressive song that feels like it puts the uncertainty of “I’m not sure if I like them” directly into the lyrics.
The way the other person’s presence sneaks into the heart like “trespassing” is portrayed with delicate nuance.
The protagonist’s emotional ups and downs over the other person’s smallest gestures and words are sure to resonate with listeners.
Included on ZUTOMAYO’s third album, “Jinkougaku,” this track was released in June 2023 and was also chosen as the theme song for ABEMA’s popular romance show “Kyou, Suki ni Narimashita.” It’s a must-listen for anyone confused about their romantic feelings or struggling with the dynamics of their relationship.
I hate love.Sangatsu no Phantasia
The song “Koi wa Kirai da” by Sangatsu no Phantasia is a track that beautifully captures the sweet-and-sour ache and frustration of love through its refreshing sound and vocalist Mia’s supple voice.
The title itself reflects the contradictions of romance—“ideal vs.
reality,” “I love you, but I hate you”—and anyone carrying around a hazy tangle of feelings will likely find it impossible not to relate.
It’s the perfect song for those who are thinking, “I want to fall in love!” or “I want to be swept up in romance!”
Blue AmbienceMrs. GREEN APPLE
A song by Mrs.
GREEN APPLE that gently wraps the ambiguity of young love.
While cherishing one’s true self, it delicately portrays the feelings of youths pining for romance.
Released in June 2022, it drew attention as the theme song for ABEMA’s popular show “Kyou, Suki ni Narimashita” (“Today, I Fell in Love”).
The track is included on the mini-album “Unity,” which garnered notice alongside other tie-in songs.
It’s recommended for those struggling with a relationship with someone they like or unsure of their own feelings.
Why not listen to this song and face the true emotions within you?
What is it? lolFuji Kaze
This is Fujii Kaze’s debut song, notable for lyrics that incorporate the Okayama dialect and a uniquely styled sound.
Blending elements of jazz and gospel, it’s characterized by the harmony between impactful wording and melody.
It’s known for depicting complex human relationships and emotional conflict.
Released in May 2020, it became a pivotal work in his career, designated as his major-label debut date alongside the release of the EP “Nan-Nan w EP.” It’s recommended for those struggling with a relationship or uncertain about their own feelings.
You’ll surely be drawn in by its Western-style groove and Fujii Kaze’s seductive vocal delivery.
TsukuyomiKing&Prince
Even if you put on a brave face and say you’re fine being alone, deep down… This is a cool, danceable track that draws you into a slightly shadowy world.
It’s a song by Johnny’s popular idol group King & Prince, released in 2022 as their 11th single, and it was used as the theme for the drama “Kurosagi.” The sweet vocals and mature sound are a perfect match, and before you know it, you’ll be completely absorbed.
It’s sure to resonate especially with those who keep their true feelings locked away in their hearts.
melt bittersatō moka
The song “melt bitter,” sung by singer-songwriter Moka Sato, known for her sweet voice, has become a hot topic especially among younger listeners for its relatable, true-to-life lyrics.
Fans have said things like, “It made me cry remembering my ex,” and “Her choice of words that pierce the heart is genius.” The poignant lyrics look back on memorable dates and the ordinary days the couple shared, unraveling the reasons for their breakup.
The fact that the memories remain so vivid even after parting might be proof that the feelings still haven’t fully settled.
