[Love Songs] Say Goodbye to Uncertain Feelings! Love Songs to Listen to When You’re Not Sure If You Like Someone
A collection of songs to listen to when you’re not sure if it’s love.
From the hazy feeling of “I feel calm and have so much fun when we’re together, but is this love?” to songs that capture the cooling of feelings after you start dating, we’ve picked a wide range.
If you want tracks that might help you find an answer to your own uncertain “Do I like them?”—whether it’s a long-standing childhood-friend relationship that blurs the line between friendship and romance, or a bond where you want them by your side but can’t see them as a romantic partner—this is for you!
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[Love Songs] Say Goodbye to Ambiguous Feelings! Love Songs to Listen to When You’re Not Sure If You Like Someone (41–50)
palettesaidāgāru
Cidergirl is a three-piece rock band.
They provided the song Palette as the theme for the film Ani Tomo (My Brother’s Friend).
It’s a pop tune that portrays the inner conflict of a woman who can’t be honest about her feelings of love.
The swiftly shifting melodies seem to reflect her wavering heart.
While the lyrics are quite heartrending, the bright melody and vocals make you feel energized when you listen.
If you’re feeling the same way, give it a listen and let it lift you up.
I don’t have a boyfriend—just for tonight.Koresawa
Since her debut, singer-songwriter Koresawa has steadfastly kept her looks private in the media while expanding her fan base with lyrics that portray the delicate psychology of women.
The song “Kareshi wa Imasen Konya Dake” (I Don’t Have a Boyfriend—Just for Tonight), which opens her second album “Kore Desho,” was selected as the ending theme for the music program “Buzz Rhythm 02.” Its lyrics evoke the situation of someone appearing who says the right things during a relationship’s lull—something many listeners may find relatable, even if they know it’s not right.
With a catchy melody and an adorable voice that lingers in your ears, it’s a number that feels strikingly real.
usmilet
A heartrending love song by milet that earnestly sings about cherishing the present moment, even while feeling anxious about possibly losing a relationship by confessing one’s feelings.
She conveys the interplay of courage and fear in taking a step forward through her signature husky voice.
Born from the album “us,” released in August 2019, this track also perfectly captures the world of the NTV Wednesday drama “Fake Affair,” for which it served as the theme song.
It gently accompanies those who struggle to express their feelings honestly to someone, or who hesitate out of a desire not to change a precious relationship.
Unraveling Loveyama
This is a song by yama that portrays, from a unique perspective, the complex emotions of anxiety and regret that arise when you begin to question your relationship with your partner.
It delicately expresses the wavering feelings of someone troubled by their bond with the one they love—considering letting go as one possible choice, yet never losing their feelings for the other person.
The track is included on the album Shikisai, released in November 2022.
It’s a song that gently stays by the side of those who struggle with relationships with someone important to them, even as they find it hard to be honest with their own feelings.
shed skinaiko
This is a song included on aiko’s single “Zutto,” released in 2011, and it’s been performed frequently on her concert tours.
As the title “Nukegara” (“Empty Shell”) suggests, the lyrics are a poignant reflection on memories of a past love.
We all have those times when the regret never fades—asking ourselves, “Why can’t I forget?” and “Why did we drift apart?” Trying to force yourself to be cheerful can sometimes make the emptiness feel even worse.
When you’re overwhelmed by loneliness, it might be okay to immerse yourself in old memories for a while before moving forward.
Eine KleineYonezu Kenshi
Falling for someone brings lots of joy, but there are also times when you suddenly feel sad or scared and your mood drops, right? Kenshi Yonezu’s “Eine Kleine” is a sentimental love song that gently embraces those feelings.
Even though thinking about the person you like should make you happy, it’s only natural to slip into negative thoughts.
It’s a slightly sad yet deeply moving song about wishing for that person’s happiness even if it means sacrificing your own feelings.
neonCity Your City
“neon” is a track by City Your City, a Japanese unit whose music is based on overseas electronic sounds like future bass and EDM.
Released in 2015 as their second single, it’s captivating for its uniquely clipped, almost broken Japanese-style vocals and its polished production.
The lyrics are written from a woman’s perspective, depicting a relationship kept at arm’s length—while still expressing the emptiness and loneliness that come with it.
If you’re questioning your relationship with someone, why not give “neon” a listen and reconsider things?
