A forfeit/punishment game for couples to get hyped (from girlfriend to boyfriend)

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When you play a quick game at home, it suddenly gets exciting when there’s a penalty for the loser, doesn’t it? She wins, and now it’s time to decide what penalty he should do… Here’s a list of recommended penalties for just that situation.

Even things you normally do can feel fun and hype-worthy when you make them a penalty.

Pick a fun penalty that suits his personality—something he’d never usually do—so it becomes a memorable moment in your shared history!

[From her to him] Punishments to spice up the fun for couples (21–30)

How do you call your partner? And how do they call you?

Let’s have them reveal the special names they only use for each other as a forfeit! The classic is dropping honorifics and calling each other by first name, but sometimes they actually use “-chan” or “-kun,” or even nicknames no one else knows.

For many people, that’s something they’d never want others to find out, which makes it perfect for a penalty game! If there’s a couple there, you could have them call each other by those names, too.

It might be embarrassing for them, but for everyone else it’s a forfeit that shares a bit of their happiness!

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List five good things about the questioner!

Have the game winner list five good things about the person receiving the penalty.

We don’t often get the chance to tell our friends or partners what we like about them directly.

Even if we think it, it can be pretty embarrassing to say it face-to-face.

But that’s exactly why it works as a penalty! Use this penalty to encourage honest expressions of feelings.

It may be embarrassing for the speaker, but it will make the receiver happy and give both of you a great opportunity to grow closer.

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[From Girlfriend to Boyfriend] Fun Punishments for Couples (31–40)

What is the minimum score on the test?

Do you remember the lowest score you ever got on a test? If this feels like a punishment game to you, a specific answer sheet you’d rather forget probably came to mind.

It’s an even better conversation starter if you share the subject and the story behind why you ended up with that score.

Admitting your lowest score can be a little embarrassing, but by telling an awkward story, you might spark lots of questions and end up feeling much closer to friends or a partner!

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In conclusion

We introduced some punishments you might want your boyfriend to do.

If he’s usually the cool type, he’d probably hate any of them… but they’ll surely be fun and make great memories! It might be a good idea to record the punishments on video and keep them, too (lol).

Here’s to creating a special memory for the two of you!