Fun, engaging topics for conversations with older adults!
By chatting with older adults, you can get a sense of how their body and mood are that day.
This time, we’re introducing conversation starters—questions about nostalgic Showa-era memories—that can help increase interactions.
Having photos or videos makes things easier to understand and helps the conversation expand even more.
It’s also great for sparking lively nostalgic conversations among older adults themselves, so we recommend it.
We’re also sharing ways to offer encouragement that can boost motivation, so please try incorporating them during meals, bathing, and other daily situations!
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Fun conversation starters that liven things up! Conversations with seniors (21–30)
The secret to a long life
How can we live a long and healthy life? That’s something many people want to know.
So this time, why don’t we have a discussion together on the theme of “the secrets to longevity”? You’ll likely get lots of ideas, such as “I make sure to drink plenty of water,” “I eat a well-balanced three meals a day,” and “I try to exercise.” Some people might even say, “I’m not doing anything special—I just enjoy my hobbies.” Why not listen to a variety of perspectives and take this as an opportunity to adopt the ideas that suit you?
Things I want to do from now on
It’s an idea to share what gives you a sense of purpose in life and what you’re interested in with one another.
Talking about what you want to challenge yourself with from now on broadens the conversation and can inspire those listening.
Of course, it’s great to tackle something you’ve long wanted to do, but trying out a recent interest is also a wonderful way to spend your time.
Starting something new adds freshness to everyday life and brings energy.
Hearing others’ stories might make you think, “I want to try that too.” By taking a new step, you can discover pleasures different from those you’ve known.
By talking about what you want to do next, you can spend a lovely time encouraging each other’s future.
Fun conversation starters that get everyone excited! Chats with seniors (31–40)
What kind of work were you doing?
This is a conversation theme that brings on a wave of nostalgia as you share the work experiences you’ve built up over many years.
Because work takes up such a large part of our lives, the memories attached to it run deep.
People will likely talk about moments when they felt a sense of fulfillment, times they overcame difficulties, and memories with coworkers.
If someone has worked in the same field, you’ll find common ground; if they’ve done something different, you’ll think, “I didn’t know there was a job like that,” and become curious.
It’s also a great idea to talk about how your appreciation for work changes after retirement.
By sharing your own experiences, you get to know each other’s values, and it can turn into a lively, enjoyable conversation.
Something that makes me itch to tell others
The knowledge and experiences we gain over a long life naturally make us want to share them with someone.
Talking about things we’ve learned or life lessons—topics you feel like teaching others—can liven up a conversation.
Sharing things you’ve been eager to tell someone or little nuggets of trivia will spark interest in listeners.
The joy of discovering something new makes your own experiences feel even more valuable.
By discussing questions and curiosities, a lively back-and-forth develops, helping older adults enjoy conversations together.
It’s an idea that expands enjoyment by sharing knowledge, allowing everyone to learn from one another.
Fun things right now
Let’s have everyone talk about what brings them joy in their current daily life.
No matter how small, moments that feel enjoyable can energize us each day.
Some may cherish time spent with others, while others value moments to themselves—everyone has their own way of enjoying life.
Hearing others’ stories can also inspire new hobbies and interests.
By sharing sources of enjoyment, we foster empathy and lively conversations among older adults.
Talking about how we enrich our lives now can motivate and inspire one another and help us stay positive.
How old would you like to be again?
An idea to share the age you’d like to go back to in your life, along with the reasons.
Everyone has special moments—things you were passionate about when you were young, time spent with family, or periods when you worked especially hard.
By talking about what you’d want to do if you could return to that time, the conversation will come alive as you recall how you felt back then.
It can also be interesting to discuss what you’d challenge yourself to do if you could go back with the knowledge and experience you have now.
Reflecting on the past might help you notice the fulfilling parts of your life and the important things you can only understand now.
By listening to others, you can sense both the differences and the common threads in each person’s life, making it a topic that deepens conversation.
What foods do you like and dislike?
A topic I’d recommend because anyone can enjoy it is food.
Talking about your favorite foods, along with memories connected to the dishes, will liven up the conversation.
Dishes you often ate with your family or flavors you encountered while traveling can be especially engaging, especially for older adults who may have special reasons for their choices.
Talking about foods you don’t like can also be interesting.
It’s nice to share foods you disliked as a child but learned to enjoy as an adult.
Asking others about their favorite foods might even inspire you to try new flavors.
Food is a familiar, everyday topic and an easy theme to discuss with anyone.