Fun, engaging topics for conversations with older adults!
By chatting with older adults, you can get a sense of how their body and mood are that day.
This time, we’re introducing conversation starters—questions about nostalgic Showa-era memories—that can help increase interactions.
Having photos or videos makes things easier to understand and helps the conversation expand even more.
It’s also great for sparking lively nostalgic conversations among older adults themselves, so we recommend it.
We’re also sharing ways to offer encouragement that can boost motivation, so please try incorporating them during meals, bathing, and other daily situations!
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Fun conversation starters! Conversations with older adults (11–20)
A conversation with humor
One way to help prevent dementia is through laughter.
In fact, there are data showing that laughing can make you less prone to developing dementia.
The breathing power used when you laugh also provides a training effect that moves the diaphragm and facial muscles.
As we age, we tend to laugh less in our daily lives.
However, with yoga or exercises that incorporate laughter, it’s easier to laugh naturally.
In particular, Laughter Yoga, which originated in India, is recommended because it combines breathing through laughter with physical movement.
It’s said that key elements in dementia prevention are strengthening the brain, internal organs, muscles, and the heart.
Laughter Yoga can train all of these, so give it a try in recreational activities.
First love memories
When did you first fall in love? For some it was a preschool teacher, for others a classmate at school—the answers vary from person to person.
So today, let’s introduce a conversation topic that tends to get lively with older adults: “memories of first love.” Men might feel a bit shy about it, but it’s a topic many women enjoy.
You’ll hear stories like, “There was a wonderful older boy in my neighborhood,” or “Someone a year above me at the same school,” each sharing their own memories.
When bringing it up, start by sharing your own experience and then ask the next person—this helps the conversation flow.
Story about pets
How each of us has interacted with animals varies from person to person, and even the pets we’ve had show their own personalities.
How about looking back on your memories of how you’ve related to animals and the pets you’ve owned? By noticing the differences—such as between people who have kept many kinds of pets and those who really wanted to but never could—you might also see the unique paths each person has taken.
If you can recall what you felt during the time you spent with pets, it may even become a chance to bring a sense of peace to your heart.
Stories about family and grandchildren
Each of us is influenced by our family in our own lives, and I imagine everyone has their own episodes to share.
How about recalling events related to your family and reflecting on the path you’ve taken so far? The nature of family relationships and how people influence one another differs from person to person, so talking about it might lead to new discoveries.
Even if you don’t have any particularly amusing stories, simply feeling your family’s love could become a source of comfort.
Travel Story
How about travel as a topic that can really engage older adults? Trips taken with friends in their youth, honeymoons, family vacations with children or grandchildren—most people have at least one trip filled with special memories.
Talking about places they’d like to visit next can also spark lively conversation.
By sharing travel memories with other participants and being inspired by each other’s stories, they can enjoy meaningful time together and promote communication.
In addition, retracing old memories can stimulate the brain and may help reduce stress.
The home-cooked dishes I often make are
Under the title “Our Family’s Signature Flavors,” shall we all talk about the home-cooked dishes we make most often? From simple fare to elaborate meals, dishes that use carefully selected ingredients, or family favorites—your answers will likely vary greatly depending on the purpose of the cooking and who you’re making it for.
The theme of “dishes we often cook at home” can also lead to topics like how you make them and “In our house, we…”.
Hearing everyone’s ideas—full of wisdom and clever tricks—and trying them out yourself is part of the fun, too.
Fun conversation starters that liven things up! Conversations with seniors (21–30)
The moment I feel the happiest is
Shall we all have a conversation on the theme: “When do you feel happiest?” Whether it’s when you’re eating something delicious, when a good crop has been harvested, or when you’re showing off your proud singing voice, there must be as many happy moments as there are people.
By sharing what happiness means to you, communication will surely be greatly encouraged even after the discussion.
Since it clarifies the topics each person enjoys, it’s bound to spark conversations in all kinds of situations.
Give it a try!