[Want to overcome it] Love songs for couples and married pairs in a rut
The longer a relationship lasts, the more likely you’ll hit a “rut.”
When you first start dating, you probably think, “That would never happen to us,” but if you’ve been together a long time—whether as a couple or as spouses—it’s something almost everyone experiences.
Here, we’re introducing plenty of love songs that revolve around that lull.
Pay attention to lyrics that express honest feelings toward your partner and that take you back to the early days of your relationship.
Some songs, unfortunately, end in a breakup, but there are also many that encourage you to think, “If we can get through this rough patch, there’s a bright future waiting for us!”
Find tracks that match how you’re feeling right now and listen as you take a moment to reaffirm each other’s feelings.
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[I Want to Overcome This] Love Songs for Couples and Married Partners in a Rut (21–30)
A midsummer passing showerUtada Hikaru
When you feel “loneliness” or “solitude,” you often want to listen to relaxing music, don’t you? Hikaru Utada, a singer-songwriter known for songs with a unique worldview, released Manatsu no Tooriame in 2016.
It was chosen as the theme song for the news program NEWS ZERO.
The track is an ambient piece featuring beautiful, resonant strings.
Along with its lyrical words, you can savor her emotional vocal performance.
How about listening to a song that calms the heart and taking the opportunity to deepen your relationship with your partner once again?
KentuckyJenīhai
This piece, included on the album “Jenny Classic,” whose tracks began early digital release in June 2023, is another song that showcases their unique style.
It portrays the emotions of a couple in the doldrums of a relationship, resulting in a languid yet heartrending mood.
The band sound deftly conveys the frustrating feelings of searching for a chance to mend the relationship.
It’s a perfect track for those who want to explore the realistic side of romance or take their time with a song that tells a story.
Songs to Help Overcome It: Love Songs for Couples and Married Partners in a Slump (31–40)
whiteoutreGretGirl
For those looking for a rock track to blow away the haze of a relationship rut, “Whiteout” is highly recommended.
It’s included on the rock band reGretGirl’s 2018 album “my,” a group known for songs that capture the ache of bittersweet love.
Emotional lyrics resonate alongside a passionate band sound.
Everyone’s felt that anxiety of thinking, “Why is my partner taking so long to reply?” This is a song we hope you’ll hear if you want to overcome those tough feelings and hit restart on your days with your partner.
LOVERS part II feat. WakadannaKato Miria
Singer-songwriter Miliyah Kato, who is also active as a novelist and fashion designer.
Her 2012 release “LOVERS part II feat.
Wakadanna” is a song that makes you feel you want to stay by your partner’s side no matter what.
Its emotional flow resonates over an R&B-style, rhythmic tempo.
Be sure to pay attention to the well-synchronized choral work with Wakadanna as well.
Why not listen to this love-filled track and deepen the bond between you two?
Emotionwacci
When a fight or argument leaves you feeling blue, the song that reminds you how precious your partner is would be “Kanjō” (“Emotions”).
It’s included on “Kanjō Hyakkei,” the album released in 2017 by the rock band wacci, known for hits like “Betsu no Hito no Kanojo ni Natta yo.” It’s a mid-tempo track with a warm, straightforward band sound.
The lyrics are filled with a message that makes you want to cherish everyday, ordinary moments.
It’s a heartfelt love song that can help you overcome a rough patch with the partner you share your life with.
fragileEvery Little Thing
Every Little Thing is a music duo that has been active since the 1990s.
They’re known for their wide-ranging musical style, including songs centered around synthesizers.
Released in 2001, their signature song “fragile” is a track that helps rekindle passionate feelings for a lover.
It’s crafted as a rock ballad with a grand, expansive atmosphere.
Kaori Mochida’s clear yet powerful vocals are also soothing.
Even if you fight or hurt each other, this song makes you feel that what matters is that the two of you can be together right now.
Before GoodbyeAAA
AAA is a music group whose members are active in various fields, including acting and fashion modeling.
Their 2014 release, “Sayonara no Mae ni,” is a heartrending song overflowing with honest feelings for a lover.
It was featured in Ito-Yokado’s “WARM STYLE” commercial.
The track is a pop mid-tempo tune with brilliant, shimmering synths.
The lyrics, which express gratitude for the days spent with a partner, are truly heart-fluttering.
Listening to this song might make some people think, “I still want to be by that person’s side.”