[Want to overcome it] Love songs for couples and married pairs in a rut
The longer a relationship lasts, the more likely you’ll hit a “rut.”
When you first start dating, you probably think, “That would never happen to us,” but if you’ve been together a long time—whether as a couple or as spouses—it’s something almost everyone experiences.
Here, we’re introducing plenty of love songs that revolve around that lull.
Pay attention to lyrics that express honest feelings toward your partner and that take you back to the early days of your relationship.
Some songs, unfortunately, end in a breakup, but there are also many that encourage you to think, “If we can get through this rough patch, there’s a bright future waiting for us!”
Find tracks that match how you’re feeling right now and listen as you take a moment to reaffirm each other’s feelings.
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Songs to Help Overcome It: Love Songs for Couples and Married Partners in a Slump (31–40)
Lovely CoupleCHIHIRO
A gentle R&B number that portrays an ideal romantic relationship.
It’s a song by CHIHIRO that embraces the wish to acknowledge each other—including indecisiveness and short tempers—and support one another with a smile.
Written and composed by the artist herself, it was released in October 2015.
This work stands out for its warm vocals and soothing melody line.
An acoustic version was also released in February 2025 to coincide with Valentine’s Day.
It’s the kind of track that can naturally soften your feelings when you listen to it after a quarrel with your partner, while thinking of them.
A perfect song for couples who want to make their relationship even better.
If it’s the two of usSUI
This is a heartwarming song by Sui that sincerely sings about the challenges and trials faced in everyday life with a partner.
The importance of being together and the resolve to move forward while supporting each other are woven into a gentle melody.
Debuting at 17 in October 2020, Sui’s richly expressive voice poignantly conveys the strength of a couple’s bond and the beauty of walking together.
On YouTube, the song has sparked a strong response, especially among younger listeners, and the channel has surpassed 150,000 subscribers.
This work is recommended for those who, while troubled by small misunderstandings or differences of opinion, want to reaffirm their deep love for their partner.
Partneryuka
A jewel-like love song by Yuka, woven with beautiful, heartwarming words that express her hopes and feelings for a future partner.
It traces the journey from meeting to marriage as if it were a love letter.
Rather than only painting an ideal future, the lyrics portray everyday life— from quarrels to making up— in a down-to-earth way that resonates with many couples.
Included on the album “Stamp Rally,” the song was released in April 2022 and generated significant buzz, especially on social media.
After a spat with your partner or when you can’t quite put your honest feelings into words, why not listen to this track to sort out your heart?
seesawtuki.
This is a delicate and expressive song by tuki., likening the subtle distance and emotional nuances between lovers to a seesaw.
It depicts the frustrating scenes of love where, when you try to get closer to the one you care about, they drift away, and when you keep your distance, they come closer.
Everyone can relate to the repeated ups and downs as their feelings fail to align.
Included on the album “15,” this track appears alongside “Moon Landing Project,” which was featured in a Suzuki Solio Bandit commercial.
It’s a recommended song for those troubled by missed connections with a partner or uncertain about how close to be.
Let’s fight about dogs versus cats until we die!Ofisharu Higedan Dism
This song by Official HIGE DANDism humorously portrays trivial differences of opinion and expresses hopes for the future of a loving couple.
It depicts two people who end up quarreling because of differing preferences, using the easily understandable contrast of dog lovers versus cat lovers.
Created by vocalist Satoshi Fujihara as a blessing for a friend’s wedding, the piece was released in April 2017 as a track on the album “Report.” It’s a song that will remind you of each other’s importance when you and your partner have a fight.
[I Want to Overcome This] Love Songs for Couples and Married Partners in a Slump (41–50)
celeryYamazaki Masayoshi
Celery is a famous song that honestly expresses down-to-earth feelings for a lover.
The track was released in 1996 by singer-songwriter Masayoshi Yamazaki, known for his technical guitar playing.
Many people may be familiar with SMAP’s cover version, too.
It has a refreshing sound that evokes a tropical vibe.
Even when opinions and values differ, this heartwarming song makes you want to cherish each other’s feelings.
How about listening to it with your partner during a laid-back day off?
Loverssumika
This is a bittersweet song by sumika that resonates with anyone who has ever struggled in a romantic relationship.
It carries the wish to grant the other person freedom and to be chosen from among many options.
Though the lyrics may sound as if they condone cheating or looking elsewhere, they actually hold a deeper message: by knowing other possibilities, both people can reaffirm the importance of each other’s presence.
Released in March 2016 as a double A-side single, the track was also used as the theme song for Fuji TV’s “Heart-throbbing Skatto” segment on the show “Pleasant TV: Skatto Japan.” It’s a song you should listen to when you want to take a step back and reexamine your relationship, or when you feel the desire to deepen your bond with someone important.