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[2026] Recommended for Men in Their 40s! A Collection of Classic Japanese Breakup Songs

When you go through a heartbreak, it can feel like there’s a gaping hole in your heart.

Little moments can bring those memories rushing back, leaving you with a pang of sadness.

In this article, we’ve gathered Japanese breakup songs released from the 1990s to the mid-2000s—the soundtrack to the youth of those who are now in their 40s.

The nostalgic melodies you used to listen to back then and the lyrics that resonate in your chest may hit even deeper now.

As you look back on past loves, why not find a small push to move forward, together with these timeless songs that stay close to your heart?

[2026] Recommended for men in their 40s! A roundup of classic Japanese breakup songs (71–80)

me me sheRADWIMPS

RADWIMPS – me me she [Official Music Video]
me me sheRADWIMPS

It’s a pretty heavy breakup song, but I think it’s perfect for anyone who just went through a split.

You love them so much there’s no way you could ever hate them, you don’t even know how to forget, and you don’t want to fall for someone else.

It’s a song that speaks for the feelings that swirl through your head after a heartbreak.

MY GRADUATIONSPEED

SPEED / my graduation -Music Video-
MY GRADUATIONSPEED

When it comes to female dance-and-vocal groups that were hugely successful in the ’90s, it has to be them.

It’s a heartbreak song loved by people of all ages, featuring such poignant singing that you wouldn’t believe some members were still in middle school.

The two vocalists’ high, pure, crystal-clear voices really strike a chord.

From the beautiful intro that evokes a sense of nostalgia to the powerful chorus, it’s a breakup song that still gives you hope for the future and the courage to keep moving forward after heartbreak.

The gospel-like ending is especially memorable.

beetle (specifically, a rhinoceros beetle)aiko

It’s one of the signature breakup songs that became a hit in the ’90s.

The slow melody and her signature vocal style gently soothe the listener’s heart.

It’s a wonderful song that lets you quietly look back on your love after a breakup and remember the happy times—crying and laughing along the way.

She says that while a beetle’s shell looks hard and strong, it might actually be a fragile and lonely creature.

From those words, the heartbroken protagonist is likened to a beetle.

Perhaps women fall in love while doing their utmost to protect themselves.

[2026] Recommended for Men in Their 40s! A Collection of Classic Japanese Breakup Songs (81–90)

Perfume of loveglobe

For those in their 40s, many probably immersed themselves in the height of the TK sound during their youth—it’s etched into their memories.

globe is one of the emblematic artists from that era, with numerous hit songs and many timeless tracks that are still listened to today.

While they have many songs about love, “Perfume of love” stands out as a popular number about a sorrowful romance.

It’s a deeply moving and relatable song that captures the sense of loss after a breakup and those helpless, aimless feelings.

An uncool way of getting dumpedŌe Senri

Uncool Way of Getting Dumped (Senri Oe) / Takahashi Kosuke @ Aoyama RizM (2018/6/14) @takahashi_kosuke
An uncool way of getting dumpedŌe Senri

This is a signature song by Senri Oe, who enjoyed immense popularity as a singer-songwriter in the 1980s and 1990s.

It was also the theme song for the drama “Men Who Want to Get Married,” and it became a hot topic because Oe himself, who was active as an actor in the show, appeared in it as well.

His character is bright, funny, a bit uncool yet kind of cool—and the lyrics, which seem to reflect that persona, resonated with listeners.

Boys who heard this song surely shed tears, overlaying it with their own heartbreak.

A little; a bitDaikoku Maki

This is the third single by singer-songwriter Maki Ohguro, who, at the time of her debut, inspired various urban legends due to her mysterious presence.

The song was used as the opening theme for the TV drama “Ichigo Hakusho,” and Ohguro’s powerful, emotional vocals make a strong impact.

The lyrics depict the complex feelings of being unable to move on because of an ex-lover’s half-hearted behavior—resonating with many women and likely making men realize they should be more careful.

With its dynamic vocals and refreshing melody, it’s a track that can blow away the pain of heartbreak.

AloneMayo Okamoto

This is the third single by singer-songwriter Mayo Okamoto, whose debut single “TOMORROW” became an instant smash hit and sent shockwaves through the J-pop scene with her musical talent.

The sentimental melody riding on a dramatic ensemble mirrors the story told in the lyrics.

The scene of a love lost because of a step that couldn’t be taken is one that many people will recall from their own experience and empathize with.

Her clear, translucent voice further heightens the sorrow—an ideal number to sink into when dealing with heartbreak.