A collection of questions that will liven up conversations with friends. Talk themes to deepen your bond.
Looking for conversation starters that naturally liven up chats with friends? With social media everywhere, there should be plenty of shared topics.
Still, it’s not always easy to think of them, and figuring out how to ask the first question can be tricky.
So this time, we’re introducing a set of classic questions that can help deepen your conversations with friends or even spark them in the first place.
These are all questions that can reveal new sides of the other person, help you share values, and bring you closer.
Give them a try in your next conversation!
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Classic topics that always get friends excited (21–30)
Are you a rice or bread person for breakfast?NEW!
Isn’t it surprisingly common for people to have a routine-like insistence on “I absolutely have to eat XX in the morning”? Broadly speaking, that preference splits into two types: rice people and bread people.
Even someone who generally likes eating side dishes with white rice might say, “In the morning, I absolutely have to have toast,” while others might feel, “I can’t get bread down first thing in the morning.” Because you can’t tell just from someone’s usual food preferences, this could make for a quiz that reveals how closely the other person pays attention to you.
What’s the first thing you do when you wake up in the morning?NEW!
Morning is a crucial moment when the day begins, and how you spend that time can affect how fulfilling your day feels.
This activity asks people to predict their very first action in the morning to get a sense of their personality and behavior patterns.
It’s also important to consider whether they can spring into action the moment they wake up—factoring in whether they wake up easily or not.
Adding a twist—questioning whether the person is truly waking up in the morning—can smoothly lead into a conversation about whether they’re a morning person or a night owl.
Are you a sea person or a mountain person?NEW!
Even among people who love nature, there tend to be “sea types” and “mountain types,” right? So let’s turn it into a quiz to find out which one you are.
For example, if there are clear markers like “I like surfing” or “My hobby is mountain climbing,” it’s easy to tell.
But if it’s something like “I like camping” or “I like fishing,” it can be hard to judge whether you’re team mountain or team sea.
On the other hand, one of the features of this quiz is that you can also answer based on an impression—like “I kind of feel like I’m a mountain person” or “I sort of seem more like a sea person.” It’s also a way to see how others perceive you.
What is something you absolutely can’t do but would like to try?NEW!
“Conquer every country in the world,” “Live with 100 kitties,” “Spend 100 million yen in a single day”—many of us have probably thought about things we’d love to try even if they’re hard to achieve, right? Here’s an idea: turn those ambitions into a quiz.
People who know your usual hobbies, favorites, and personality might even guess your secret dreams.
After enjoying the quiz, have everyone share their own ambitions too—it’s sure to liven things up even more.
What do you care about when it comes to cup ramen?
Cup ramen is easy to make—just add hot water—and one of its charms is the wide variety, from classic flavors to inventive ones.
How about asking people about their personal preferences for this familiar food? You might discover not only their favorite types but also surprising ways they like to customize it.
Since the cup ramen available can vary by region, it’s also a great chance to notice differences in places people have lived and in their cultures through the conversation.
What’s something you’re glad you bought this year?
How about having a talk where everyone shares recent purchases they’re glad they bought and would recommend to others? Setting a theme—like items bought this year or things purchased from a specific store—makes it easier for listeners to picture the items and helps the conversation flow smoothly.
It’s also a nice bonus that you can get a sense of what each person is interested in based on the types of things they bought.
Plus, by explaining the products clearly so others can see the appeal, you can sharpen your presentation skills as well.
What do you do on your days off?NEW!
Everyone spends their days off differently: some use the time to rest, while others fully indulge in their hobbies.
This activity aims to glean personality traits, behavior patterns, and what people value in their daily lives from how they spend their holidays.
Even if someone uses the time for rest, have them consider the finer details of how they rest; if it’s about hobbies, have them think through the specifics—encouraging deeper reflection.
If you discover shared ways of spending time, that can become a great springboard for a lively conversation.
Who’s your top fave?
Let’s talk about the things we’re especially passionate about in life—our “oshi” (favorites).
While the term is often used for idol groups, it might be nice to think more broadly and consider other genres as well.
By sharing the deeper aspects of each person’s hobbies, your relationships may grow closer.
Explaining in detail what first made someone your favorite can deepen your love for them and could even become a chance to spread the word to others.
What’s your favorite fashion brand?
What people value in clothing varies from person to person—some prioritize convenience, while others focus on brands.
This question asks you to think about which fashion brands you like and uses that to explore your everyday life.
The brand name that pops into your mind first can also reveal whether you lean toward luxury.
If you like the same brand, you can chat about that; if you prefer different brands, you can get excited discussing what makes each one appealing.
If you compared yourself to an animal, what would you be?
A fun conversation idea that really livens things up is comparing yourself to an animal.
Because you sleep a lot, you’re a koala; you go at your own pace, so you’re a turtle; you’re quick and nimble, so you’re a squirrel—when the analogy matches someone’s image, it sparks laughter.
When people around you say things like, “Don’t you kind of seem like a panda?” you might discover sides of yourself you hadn’t noticed, which makes for delightful revelations.
Even if it’s a bit embarrassing, sharing with a laugh naturally gets the conversation flowing and creates a warm, friendly atmosphere—that’s the key.
It’s a memorable, entertaining talk idea that also gives you a chance to reflect on yourself.
