Lovely Play & Recreation

A collection of questions that will liven up conversations with friends. Talk themes to deepen your bond.

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I’ve been playing the Electone since I was six, mainly performing Disney music, anime songs, and music from dramas and films. I post performance videos on YouTube and social media, and I also give concerts. Building on my Electone experience, I took up synthesizer and piano during my student years and performed at school-sponsored events. As a writer, I’ve covered not only music-related topics but a wide range of genres, so I hope to draw on my experience to deliver articles that make readers think, “I want to try that!” or “I want to listen to that!”
A Vocaloid producer who is also a music writerAraki Jakkan
I’ve worked in a variety of roles—regardless of pro or amateur settings—including live event PA, cameraman for video and photography, restaurant staff, and logistics center staff. I now spend my days as a part-time writer. I’ve contributed to music and manga websites with feature/review articles, and wrote the liner notes included as a bonus for 1st PLACE Inc.’s “IA SUPER BEST.” As for my music background, I started playing guitar in junior high and focused on band activities during my school years. For over 15 years since then, up to the present, I’ve continued releasing original tracks as a Vocaloid producer. My areas of expertise are Japanese rock, Vocaloid, and manga.

Looking for conversation starters that naturally liven up chats with friends? With social media everywhere, there should be plenty of shared topics.

Still, it’s not always easy to think of them, and figuring out how to ask the first question can be tricky.

So this time, we’re introducing a set of classic questions that can help deepen your conversations with friends or even spark them in the first place.

These are all questions that can reveal new sides of the other person, help you share values, and bring you closer.

Give them a try in your next conversation!

The ultimate multiple-choice questions that liven things up (1–10)

Which would you rather live in, the city or the countryside?

[Anime] City vs Countryside: Which is better to live in?

Which would you rather live in, the city or the countryside?

What you feel you need in your daily life changes what you look for in your surroundings.

This question—whether you’d rather live in the city or the countryside—helps reveal what you seek in your lifestyle.

Cities are convenient but tend to be noisy and have little nature, while the countryside is rich in nature and quiet but often inconvenient.

It’s a topic that reflects your values: which appeal you prioritize more, and what kinds of downsides you can tolerate and to what extent.

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Which do you value more, appearance or personality?

Which matters more in love: personality or looks? (Interviews with Shibuya girls) (clip) [iMatch] #shorts

Which do you value more, appearance or personality?

This is a question about interactions with people—especially in romantic relationships—asking whether someone prioritizes looks or, instead, focuses on what’s inside regardless of appearance.

Since it’s rare for someone to care only about one side to an extreme, it’s better to ask which they value more.

Both “appearance” and “what’s inside” include different aspects, so try to dig into which specific parts they prioritize.

This kind of question not only reveals the direction of their focus but can also provide clues about what they’re willing to accept or forgive.

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Which would you dislike more: if everyone else disappeared from the world except you, or if you were the only one to disappear from the world?

This is a question asking which you would dislike more: being the only one left in the world, or being the only one to disappear from the world.

If you vividly imagine each scene—living alone in a world where no one else exists, and a world where you have vanished while everyone else carries on as usual—you can probably gauge the intensity of the discomfort each scenario evokes.

Thinking about the difficulties of being alone can also prompt you to reflect on how you and others are interconnected in daily life.

If opinions emerge like being unable to accept that people live happily in a world without you, those differences in perspective could spark an engaging discussion.

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Which would you rather have: a sense of humor or a sense of fashion?

[INI] Which do you want!? “Sense of Humor” or “Fashion Sense” [DAM CHANNEL]

Which would you rather have: a sense of humor or a sense of fashion?

Watch “Which would you rather have: a sense of humor or a sense of fashion?” on YouTube

Which would you rather have: a sense of humor or a sense of fashion? A sense of humor can lift someone’s spirits and enrich your relationships, right? And a sense of fashion can be used as a way to express yourself, plus you can switch up your style to suit different situations and enjoy it, too.

Both seem like great choices.

Be sure to talk it over with friends and share your reasons—it’ll make for a fun conversation! By hearing everyone’s perspectives, you might even discover something new.

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Which would you rather have, the Anywhere Door or the Take-copter?

Which one would you rather have? The Take-copter or the Anywhere Door?

Which would you rather have, the Anywhere Door or the Take-copter?

Doraemon’s secret gadgets, the Anywhere Door and the Take-copter—which would you rather have? With the Anywhere Door, you can open it and instantly arrive at any place you specify.

The Take-copter lets you fly through the sky to wherever you want to go.

Unlike traveling on roads, you wouldn’t have to worry about traffic jams.

Conversations about Doraemon’s gadgets are sure to be a hit! Asking friends why they made their choice will make the discussion even more exciting.

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If you could only eat one from now on, Kinoko no Yama or Takenoko no Sato, which would it be?

Meiji’s chocolate snacks “Kinoko no Yama” and “Takenoko no Sato” are a classic topic that divides opinions.

Let’s ask people which one they would choose if they could only eat one of the two.

Since this is a different angle from the usual “Which do you like more?” theme of the so-called ‘Kinoko vs.

Takenoko War,’ the direction of the answers might differ as well.

Because these products vary greatly in sweetness and texture, this question also seems likely to reveal what people prioritize when imagining eating them over time.

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Which would you prefer: a long but ordinary life, or a short life that’s more fulfilling than anyone else’s?

This is a question that makes you think about how you want to live your life.

Let’s pit two extremes against each other: wanting to live a long life even if it’s ordinary, versus wanting a fully satisfying life even if it’s short.

It could reveal differences in how people think—whether they prefer calm, peaceful days or exciting, stimulating ones.

It might also be interesting to exchange opinions and find compromises between the two sides.

Another key point is that the question uses vague terms like “longevity” and “a short life,” so discussing how many years each person imagines for those phrases could make for a lively conversation.

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