Questions to deepen your bond as a couple! Conversation topics that will get lovers talking
“I want to know my partner better!” Do you ever feel that way? Actually, there are lots of perfect question ideas to help couples deepen their bond.
For example: “What do you want me to call you?” “What’s your ideal date?” “What made you fall for me?” Through casual conversation, you can discover new sides of each other and notice differences in your values.
In this article, we introduce questions you can use during dates or in your LINE chats to bring you closer as a couple.
Time with your partner is sure to become even more fun!
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- A psychology test that gets couples excited—find out your romantic tendencies and personality.
- A forfeit/punishment game for couples to get hyped (from girlfriend to boyfriend)
- A collection of hilarious questions that will liven up the conversation and might help you learn more about the other person
- [Ultimate Either-Or] A great conversation starter and a chance to get to know each other!
- How Much Do You Know? A Quiz Collection About Me
- [Talk] Interesting! Hilarious! A Collection of Silly Questions
- [Personality Test] A must-see for couples! Check your compatibility with the one you love
Questions about the future (11–20)
What is your ideal married life?
Every year, November 22 is celebrated as “Good Couple Day” in Japan, based on a wordplay with the date.
There’s even an official website for it.
Each year, one couple is chosen as the Partner of the Year, and for 2024, the comedian Masaru Hamaguchi and the TV personality Akina Minami were selected.
Of course, an “ideal couple” can mean many different things: some people want to stay lovey-dovey forever, some want to build their careers while maintaining their life together, and others are fine with a weekend marriage vibe.
It might be a good idea to talk about your ideal vision in advance.
In conclusion
Casual conversations with your partner are valuable opportunities to get to know each other.
By discovering unexpected sides and sharing your values, your bond as a couple will grow stronger.
In your daily conversations, be mindful of caring for one another.
The accumulation of those small exchanges will surely nurture an irreplaceable relationship.



